A new Swingers Couple secret told to us….

by | Sep 2, 2024 | News from Internet, Swinger Stories | 0 comments

A couple, who wish to remain anonymous, agreed to answer some quick questions about their way of understanding swinging.

We love and respect everyone’s point of view and this is theirs that we publish to you

HOW LONG HAVE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER BEEN INVOLVED IN THE SWINGER LIFE STYLE?

About three years.

HOW LONG HAVE THE TWO OF YOU BEEN TOGETHER?

Twenty years.

ARE YOU A HETEROSEXUAL OR HOMOSEXUAL COUPLE OR DOES IT MATTER?

Strictly heterosexual. We will have threesomes but everything is done on a “straight” basis. Ex-for Mfm, all male attention on me, fmf, all female attention on him.

HOW DO YOU NOT GET JEALOUS OR HOW DO YOU HANDLE JEALOUSY FROM YOUR PARTNER?

We just kinda let the jealousy go. We know we’ll always be together, we love each other and desire each other very much so jealousy isn’t really a thing. We enjoy seeing the other enjoy themselves. It’s fun, there’s no jealousy or ill feelings towards anyone but also, everyone must be comfortable with each other. We’ve never put ourselves in a position that would leave the other feeling anything but comfortable.

WHAT IS THE APPEAL OF SWINGING? LIKE I MENTIONED ABOVE, IS IT BECAUSE OF SOMETHING YOUR PARTNER IS MISSING?

The appeal… seeing the other enjoying themselves, a “view” you wouldn’t normally be provided, having the ability to “look” without feeling guilty, even if it’s nothing more than checking someone out. I mean we all look when we see someone attractive, it’s the freedom to do that with no guilt attached, being able to act on that desire without “cheating” if it comes to that.

WHAT ARE COMMON COMPLICATIONS THAT COME UP?

Our main issue is time. Between work and life, it really doesn’t leave a lot of time for it, which is fine. We don’t do it often and it can be difficult to find a person/couple where everyone clicks. A lot of couples have jealousy issues, especially women and a more so than not, the women can be bitchy or have an “in all that” kind of attitude

HOW DO YOU MEET OTHER COUPLES?

Were on a few sites, aff, sls and tinder to name a few. People are hard to find IMO, if you have any kind of standards… and once you find someone/people, it becomes a do we all jive together thing and that’s more often no than yes.

DO YOU GUYS HAVE RULES IN PLACE?

Our rules-we always play “safe” and we only do things together.

HOW WOULD YOU RECOMMEND SOMEONE ‘DIPS THEIR TOES’  INTO THE WATER OF THE SWINGING WORLD AND APPROACH THEIR PARTNER WITH SOMETHING LIKE THAT?

To approach it is difficult… most people aren’t open to the idea… it’s really a relationship by relationship kind of thing. My first tip would be to be in a strong, loving, trusting relationship that has open lines of communication.

HAS SWINGING EVER BEEN A REGRETTABLE THING/THREATENED YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND IF IT WAS, HOW DID YOU GUYS PUT WHAT HAPPENED BEHIND YOU TO CONTINUE DOING IT?

No, it hasn’t. We’ve always respected each other wishes, wants, likes and dislikes and we can literally talk about anything openly without anyone getting angry or upset or hurt.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU MEET A NEW COUPLE FOR THE FIRST TIME? 

When we meet someone new, we always do a “meet and greet” type thing. Go out and grab drinks or an appetizer, whatever’s clever and sit down and chat for an hour or two, just seeing how well everyone gets along. We do try to get to know each but on a basic level, we don’t dive into our deepest secrets or anything.

WHAT IS THE MOST COMMON MISCONCEPTION OF BEING A SWINGER COUPLE?

I think the most common misconception is that swingers have sex with anyone, anywhere, anytime. And while that may be true for some, it is not for us. We don’t consider ourselves in an “open” relationship. To me that implies anything goes. We swing as a couple. We’ve been doing this for 3yrs, we’ve met up with two other couples, two single guys and a single girl.

IS THIS SOMETHING THAT YOU TAKE PART IN AS A GROUP OR DO YOU GO OFF SEPARATELY AND DO YOUR THING? 

I may have answered this above, but we chat online or thru text, however, then we plan a meet and greet. If that goes well, we setup a later date to “play”. If it’s a couple, it’s same room the whole time, there may be switching back and forth, always play safe. If it’s Mfm or fmf, it’s more of a take turns scenario. While sometimes it’s both guys/girls have things going on, it’s really kinda hard to take of two guys/girls at once. It’s nothing like porn portrays at allllll.

ANY ADVICE OR ANYTHING YOU’D LIKE SOMEONE WHO IS UNFAMILIAR WITH SWINGING TO KNOW?

It’s not for everyone, women tend to get jealous even if they think they won’t, making sure everyone is totally comfortable with each other is very important, open communication lines and set boundaries are very important and need to be thoroughly discussed. Agree before you start that if either wants to stop at anytime, it will all stop and no one will harbor ill feelings.

Not sure about you guys, but I definitely learned some new things from this couple. I wanted to take a minute and thank them for replying to my request and taking the time to answer these honestly and give us a peek into their lifestyle.

0 Comments

Submit a Comment

Events Calendar

Mon
Tue
Wed
Thu
Fri
Sat
Sun
M
T
W
T
F
S
S
25
10:30 PM - Hot Zone
26
10:30 PM - Triangle
27
10:30 PM - Lady Bsx
28
10:30 PM - Kamasutra Night
29
30
10:30 PM - Lingerie Party
2
10:30 PM - Hot Zone
3
10:30 PM - Triangle
4
10:30 PM - Lady Bsx
5
10:30 PM - Kamasutra Night
6
7
10:30 PM - Lingerie Party
9
10:30 PM - Hot Zone
10
10:30 PM - Triangle
11
10:30 PM - Lady Bsx
12
10:30 PM - Kamasutra Night
13
14
10:30 PM - Lingerie Party
16
10:30 PM - Hot Zone
17
10:30 PM - Triangle
18
10:30 PM - Lady Bsx
19
10:30 PM - Kamasutra Night
23
10:30 PM - Hot Zone
1
2
3
4
5
Hot Zone
25 November, 2024 - 26 November, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Triangle
26 November, 2024 - 27 November, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lady Bsx
27 November, 2024 - 28 November, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Kamasutra Night
28 November, 2024 - 29 November, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
XXXperience night
29 November, 2024 - 30 November, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lingerie Party
30 November, 2024 - 1 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Hot Couples. Very Bad
1 December, 2024 - 2 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Hot Zone
2 December, 2024 - 3 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Triangle
3 December, 2024 - 4 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lady Bsx
4 December, 2024 - 5 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Kamasutra Night
5 December, 2024 - 6 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
XXXperience night
6 December, 2024 - 7 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lingerie Party
7 December, 2024 - 8 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Hot Couples. Very Bad
8 December, 2024 - 9 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Hot Zone
9 December, 2024 - 10 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Triangle
10 December, 2024 - 11 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lady Bsx
11 December, 2024 - 12 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Kamasutra Night
12 December, 2024 - 13 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
XXXperience night
13 December, 2024 - 14 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lingerie Party
14 December, 2024 - 15 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Hot Couples. Very Bad
15 December, 2024 - 16 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Hot Zone
16 December, 2024 - 17 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Triangle
17 December, 2024 - 18 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Lady Bsx
18 December, 2024 - 19 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
Kamasutra Night
19 December, 2024 - 20 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
20 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
XXXperience night
20 December, 2024 - 21 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 am
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
21 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
Lingerie Party
21 December, 2024 - 22 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
22 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
Hot Couples. Very Bad
22 December, 2024 - 23 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
23 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
Hot Zone
23 December, 2024 - 24 December, 2024    
10:30 pm - 3:00 pm
Bad Romance Swingers Club (ROME-ITALY) Via Beniamino Franklin 3/A info +39 351 8867950 We are waiting for you at our club for an evening of [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
24 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
25 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
26 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
27 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
28 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
29 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
30 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
SEXY and TRANSGRESSIVE NEW YEAR'S EVE Milan - the Best December 31st
31 December, 2024    
All Day
NEW YEAR'S EVE & TRANSGRESSIVE EVENING December 31st THE SAFEST AND MOST CONTROLLED CLUB IN MILAN!!! INFO & BOOKING 3349134154 PLEASE NOTE THAT PLACES ARE [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
31 December, 2024    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
1 January, 2025    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
2 January, 2025    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
3 January, 2025    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
4 January, 2025    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
5 January, 2025    
All Day
Scatenati e Scatena le tue fantasie con una serata unica ed irripetibile nel migliore Club Privè per Cuckold di Milano, Garantiamo un ambiente assolutamente controllato, [...]
Events on 25 November, 2024
Hot Zone
25 Nov 24
Rome
Events on 26 November, 2024
Triangle
26 Nov 24
Rome
Events on 27 November, 2024
Lady Bsx
27 Nov 24
Rome
Events on 28 November, 2024
Kamasutra Night
28 Nov 24
Rome
Events on 29 November, 2024
XXXperience night
29 Nov 24
Rome
Events on 30 November, 2024
Lingerie Party
30 Nov 24
Rome
Events on 1 December, 2024
Hot Couples. Very Bad
1 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 2 December, 2024
Hot Zone
2 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 3 December, 2024
Triangle
3 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 4 December, 2024
Lady Bsx
4 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 5 December, 2024
Kamasutra Night
5 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 6 December, 2024
XXXperience night
6 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 7 December, 2024
Lingerie Party
7 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 8 December, 2024
Hot Couples. Very Bad
8 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 9 December, 2024
Hot Zone
9 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 10 December, 2024
Triangle
10 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 11 December, 2024
Lady Bsx
11 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 12 December, 2024
Kamasutra Night
12 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 13 December, 2024
XXXperience night
13 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 14 December, 2024
Lingerie Party
14 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 15 December, 2024
Hot Couples. Very Bad
15 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 16 December, 2024
Hot Zone
16 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 17 December, 2024
Triangle
17 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 18 December, 2024
Lady Bsx
18 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 19 December, 2024
Kamasutra Night
19 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 20 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
20 Dec 24
Milano
XXXperience night
20 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 21 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
21 Dec 24
Milano
Lingerie Party
21 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 22 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
22 Dec 24
Milano
Hot Couples. Very Bad
22 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 23 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
23 Dec 24
Milano
Hot Zone
23 Dec 24
Rome
Events on 24 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
24 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 25 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
25 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 26 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
26 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 27 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
27 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 28 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
28 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 29 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
29 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 30 December, 2024
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
30 Dec 24
Milano
Events on 31 December, 2024
Events on 1 January, 2025
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
1 Jan 25
Milano
Events on 2 January, 2025
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
2 Jan 25
Milano
Events on 3 January, 2025
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
3 Jan 25
Milano
Events on 4 January, 2025
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
4 Jan 25
Milano
Events on 5 January, 2025
CUCKOLD, BULL E HOTWIFE !
5 Jan 25
Milano