Having met a relatively wide range of hotwives I can pretty much say there are common carectheristic among successful bulls.
Here is my top x list of must have to ensure you will be successful in meeting but mostly satisfy a hotwife
Be confident and energetic – Confidence ia really important not only when it comes to sex. Most hotwives embark this journey because their husbands are not able to make them feel desired and deliver when it comes to satisfy their sexual needs. This often leads beautiful women to lose confidence (link to confident wife) themselves despite how attractive they are or in oder circumstances simply need a confident man that can take them how they have never been before. Showing confidence and making them feel comfortable is extremely important at every stage of the relationship. Confidence is not something everyone has to begin with, I was personally very shy but I did manage to develop it by practicing throughout my meets. Check out my guide on how to become more confident when dating an older woman.
Deliver when it comes to sex – it’s very simple, you need to be able to fuck hard and have plenty stamina. There is no if, here. You role as a bull is primarily based on your ability to pound a hotwife like her husband will never be able to. Doesn’t mean all women are after rough sex (link to guides on hard sex) but still I very much doubt you will ever meet a hotwife who is happy to be fucked 5-10 minutes. Most hotwives are over 30-35 and majority of my dates have been over 40. As I have explained in my post on sex with older women (link) the expectations are higher and your ability to deliver will pretty much determine your success in having regular demand. Just to be extra clear, less than 1 hour without coming and ability to pound heavy are essential. Similar to confidence this is something you can also train with time, I advise you read my post on how to last longer and learn how to fuck hard (link)
Size matters, be at least over 6.5-7 inches. Ideally 7.5-8.5″. In many years of experience I yet have to find a hotwife who doesn’t care about size. Some are really obsessed (usually describe themselves as size queens) while some are relatively less strict yet a common fantasy of any hotwife/cuck couple is to go bigger. It’s a great turn on for the husband to see the wife with a bigger guy but also a necessity on her side. The core about hotwife sex is about her getting fucked better by a bigger cock. If you smaller than 6.5″ inches your chances to impress are close to 0 unless you are extremely thick. Yet most wives so far have confirmed 7-7.5″ to be the starting size while over time they are naturally attractes to 8+ inches cocks. I have written a more in-depth post on cock size and why I think it matters, I am not extra large myself and rarely had NOs being 7+” but in case you are very small I doubt this is for you. Differently from most other requirements this can’t be trained, you can only blame mother nature and acknowledge you might become a cuckold husband if you happen to marry a very hot wife.
Understand your role as a bull – this is really important if you want to establish successful long term relationships rather than on off meets. I have written a guide on the difference between the two and my advice to best deal in both situations yet is always essential to understand your role. Couples and hotwives really appreciate if you show respect for both and particularly husbands will be more likely to trust you with their other half if you show respect, good manners and appreciation for the privilege you been give. Check out my guide on managing a long term relationship with a cuckold couple (link).
Don’t treat a hotwife as a number, pay attention to every single detail, listen and be prepared to give her all the attentions she needs. Many bulls (myself included) are not exclusive to a single couple, that said I strongly advise to go for quantity rather than quality. I fully appreciate you can be horny and can’t sync with your existing contacts but meeting new people is not always as efficient or rewarding as developing longer relationships. There have been periods where I could not make it work with any regular hotwife while other times and currently enjoy regular meets with 3 wives on top of one off encounters. Important is to make sure you not being too superficial and just treat every single hotwife and couple with great dedication. If you only think this is just about a 2 hours hard fuck you getting it wrong. Into each meet there is usually more preparation than action. So do regular relationships where you have to be prepared to invest time. I am a very busy professional myself, check out my blogpost on how to sync business with pleasure for tips on how balance and get the best out the time you have available. Easy sex can look appealing and personally I could have ton of it these days thanks to recommendations and many messages I received but over time I decided quality is the way to go. Best hotwives deserve best attentions, don’t confuse this for easy sex.
There is no better way of putting the spice back into your relationship than to experiment with couples dating otherwise known as the swinging lifestyle. It’s something that more and more people are looking into and it’s a great way to meet new people and strengthen a relationship while fulfilling sexual desires. Being able to act out naughty fantasies means that couple are less likely to “cheat” on one another because they are given permission to engage in the activity.
To avoid any jealousy from taking over, some couples set boundaries. The boundaries are there to keep their emotional bond between them in place. For example, some couples has a “no kissing on the lips” rule that is adhere to by both partners. Some might think that “sharing” their partner with somebody else would have detrimental effects, but many couples find it actually makes them more open with each another.
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Sex is erotic, pleasurable and keeps us feeling happy – this is what swinging can offer. We weren’t made to have sex with one person for the rest of our lives and we shouldn’t feel that restraint. You can be in love with one person but have sex with many. Exploring your sexual side with both men and women will make you feel alive and much more together in everyday life.
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Last night we finally had our first orgy! It was unplanned but not unwanted because we have always wanted to try this! Me and hubby were invited to a private party – we only knew the hosts and they are actively looking for couples to take part in their weekly orgies.
It was a bit weird at first but luckily we saw another couple we have swapped with before – so, it wasn’t that socially awkward. You always feel pressure at such events to find someone to play with and not just keep to yourself – I mean, it’s not mandatory but if you only watch, you won’t be invited again.
After a while, a couple decided to go in one of the bedrooms with our friends and start the fun with some wife swap. Me and hubby went there too and just watched in the beginning but soon they invites us in and we didn’t hesitate for a second ?
We do have some experience in group play but it was mostly with another couple and nothing more than a foursome. So, we were just a bit nervous because we finally were at a real full-blown orgy! I think there were at least 20 men and women that night in the house.
Last night we finally had our first orgy! It was unplanned but not unwanted because we have always wanted to try this! Me and hubby were invited to a private party – we only knew the hosts and they are actively looking for couples to take part in their weekly orgies.
It was a bit weird at first but luckily we saw another couple we have swapped with before – so, it wasn’t that socially awkward. You always feel pressure at such events to find someone to play with and not just keep to yourself – I mean, it’s not mandatory but if you only watch, you won’t be invited again.
After a while, a couple decided to go in one of the bedrooms with our friends and start the fun with some wife swap. Me and hubby went there too and just watched in the beginning but soon they invites us in and we didn’t hesitate for a second ?
We do have some experience in group play but it was mostly with another couple and nothing more than a foursome. So, we were just a bit nervous because we finally were at a real full-blown orgy! I think there were at least 20 men and women that night in the house.
But watching all of these sexy bodies fucking in bed and moaning with pleasure and enjoying themselves made us really horny. I can’t always cum because I get tired or am too anxious but this time everything made me feel relaxed. And also wanted. Every man there wanted some time with me and this made me feel so pretty ?
I can’t describe it all but you can imagine ? There was lots of fucking, threesomes, even a short gangbang for one lucky lady (I didn’t dare this time). When we left, I was feeling so light and happy that I could go on and on and on!
Last night we finally had our first orgy! It was unplanned but not unwanted because we have always wanted to try this! Me and hubby were invited to a private party – we only knew the hosts and they are actively looking for couples to take part in their weekly orgies.
It was a bit weird at first but luckily we saw another couple we have swapped with before – so, it wasn’t that socially awkward. You always feel pressure at such events to find someone to play with and not just keep to yourself – I mean, it’s not mandatory but if you only watch, you won’t be invited again.
After a while, a couple decided to go in one of the bedrooms with our friends and start the fun with some wife swap. Me and hubby went there too and just watched in the beginning but soon they invites us in and we didn’t hesitate for a second ?
We do have some experience in group play but it was mostly with another couple and nothing more than a foursome. So, we were just a bit nervous because we finally were at a real full-blown orgy! I think there were at least 20 men and women that night in the house.
But watching all of these sexy bodies fucking in bed and moaning with pleasure and enjoying themselves made us really horny. I can’t always cum because I get tired or am too anxious but this time everything made me feel relaxed. And also wanted. Every man there wanted some time with me and this made me feel so pretty ?
I can’t describe it all but you can imagine ? There was lots of fucking, threesomes, even a short gangbang for one lucky lady (I didn’t dare this time). When we left, I was feeling so light and happy that I could go on and on and on!
But watching all of these sexy bodies fucking in bed and moaning with pleasure and enjoying themselves made us really horny. I can’t always cum because I get tired or am too anxious but this time everything made me feel relaxed. And also wanted. Every man there wanted some time with me and this made me feel so pretty ?
I can’t describe it all but you can imagine ? There was lots of fucking, threesomes, even a short gangbang for one lucky lady (I didn’t dare this time). When we left, I was feeling so light and happy that I could go on and on and on!
Learn what you need to know about a cuckold relationship to make it work! This short article gathers all that you have to know while cuckolding your better half. What is a cuckold? By and large use, and the utilization we will utilize in this article, a cuckold alludes to a wedded man whose spouse takes part in sexual issues with other men. The rest of this article will let you know, the lady, how to change the progression of your traditional relationship to make an active “cuckolding relationship”: a relationship in which you have illicit relationships with other men and both yourself and your better half are content with the game plan.
Does He Want To Be Cuckolded?
A few men fantasize about this sort of relationship. In any case, if your better half is NOT one of these men, you have no expectation at all of altering his opinion. While not an abnormal dream, it is not for everybody. What’s more, most men would be stunned at their spouses having illegal sexual illicit relationships. So we will continue as though your significant other DOES need to be a cuckold.
New Relationship Rules
Your significant other will want to submit himself to you. You are currently his “predominant.” He will take after your tenets and appreciate doing as such. What you have to do is give him another arrangement of life-affirming principles. These new guidelines depend totally on YOU. The guidelines, be that as it may, ought to be improved to make your life. If you detest cleaning, have your significant other do it. Possibly doing the pressing is your concept of a bad dream. Begin with a couple of controls then continuously expand on them. The one decides that is basic in ALL types of cuckoldry is keeping the spouse from sexual discharge.
Disciplines And Rewards
While cuckolding your better half, it is basic that you utilize an arrangement of disciplines and rewards. This is much similar to you would utilize when preparing a pooch. Prizes ought to be given for good conduct and as a rule, have a sexual component. It is imperative to recognize what sexually stirs your better half. Does he like feet, for example? As a reward, let him adore your feet. It will feel odd rebuffing your better half, yet it is gigantically critical. You should tell him that you are currently the manager.
Sweethearts: The Final Step To Cuckolding Your Husband
Obviously, by definition, to make your significant other a cuckold you need a sexual relationship with another man (or men). These are ordinarily alluded to as “bulls.” This will be the last stride. If you and your better half are as yet glad in your new relationship, then you have effectively cuckolded your life partner.